Monday, February 16, 2004

i can't win

If I ever had an insecure moment during my relationships and went to a friend for counsel, I would end up walking away feeling more stupid than hurt. The guy would apparently not be worth my time, effort, or tears. I shoulda kicked his shit to the curb a looong time ago, or I needed to back away from guys all together and take up something fun -- like knitting.

When it's my turn to be on the counseling end of the phone, again I end up feeling stupid. In spending "quality time" with a guy, one needs to be preapared to be pushed aside for "the guys that he sees everyday anyway", TigerWoods, the JennaBlowUpDoll, the ex-girlfriend he still talks to/sleeps with, or any combination of the above. Pointing this out gets me in trouble and I become of no help at all. Well hell, what am I suppose to say?!

For some reason, all guys that myself or most girls would consider dating have at least 3 of the 4 aformentioned tags to their character, so you think most girls would be prepared, but they're not.

Oh well. I leave the counseling job to the rest of the girly girls that seem to know better than me. I'm going to stick to the "gee, I don't know what to say" line.

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